Hi! I'm Wendy Busby

Relationships are at the heart of everything I do. I believe we’re wired for connection, and when we understand ourselves more deeply, we can show up more fully in our lives, with our partners, our families, our communities, and even within our own inner world. That’s my passion, helping people build meaningful, lasting connections that reflect who they truly are.

I’m the creator of Uniquely You Coaching and The Uniquely You Framework, a whole-person approach that integrates identity, body wisdom, relational patterns, and belonging. My work is rooted in the belief that growth isn’t about becoming someone new it’s about remembering who you are, understanding your patterns, and learning how to live in a way that feels grounded, clear, and true.

My healing journey didn’t begin with the Enneagram.
Long before I ever learned about types or motivations, I spent years doing deep inner work through therapy and EMDR. Healing trauma wounds, understanding my story, and rebuilding the way I related to myself and the world. That season gave me the emotional foundation I needed: steadiness, self-awareness, and the ability to trust my own inner voice.

A few years later, I discovered the Enneagram and it took my growth to an entirely different level. It didn’t replace the healing I had already done; it illuminated it. It offered language for the patterns I couldn’t yet see, and compassion for the parts of me still learning how to soften. The Enneagram doesn’t just tell you what you do it reveals why.
And that one shift can transform everything.

It certainly transformed my marriage. After nearly 25 years together, Josh and I understand one another with a depth I never imagined possible. When we learned our unique communication styles and core motivations, we finally had a shared language for working through old patterns with more grace, less frustration, and less defensiveness. It gave us a roadmap back to connection.

Before becoming a coach, I spent years serving the United States Marine Corps as the Executive Assistant and Protocol Officer to the Commanding Officer at MAWTS-1. I planned high-level VIP visits and supported military families; an experience that taught me the value of presence, resilience, and steady leadership under pressure. As a longtime military spouse and now a proud military mom, I deeply understand the sacrifice, strength, and emotional complexity that come with service.

For over two decades, I’ve also been deeply involved in the wellness world. owning two fitness studios, teaching yoga and barre, and helping clients find freedom in their bodies through movement and breath. Today, that same body wisdom threads through my coaching, helping clients regulate emotions, understand their nervous systems, and reconnect with themselves from the inside out.

My faith also shapes the heart of my work. I find deep meaning in walking with others on their spiritual path, whether they come from a Christian tradition or another faith background. I welcome every client with an open heart, a listening ear, and a belief in their sacred worth.

I live in sunny Yuma, Arizona, with my husband Josh and our two beloved mini schnauzers, Oliver and Daisy. I’m a Self-Preservation Type Four on the Enneagram committed to beauty, depth, and living a life that’s honest, embodied, and wholehearted.

My work is an extension of that commitment.
And I’m honored to walk with every person who steps into this journey of becoming uniquely themselves.